Can A Stay At Home Mom Make Money? Your #1 Guide.

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My answer: Why not?

I’ve been a stay-at-home mother three years now, and I not only make money – I’ve gone and retired my pharmacist husband.

Once upon a time, I used to think that being a stay-at-home parent meant:

  • You sacrificed your career path to take care of the kids.
  • You didn’t have much money, and the entire family depended on one salary.
  • You did household chores and managed young children the whole day, and basically scrimped and saved your way through everything.

Boy, was I wrong.

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I Make $30,000 Monthly As A Stay At Home Mom. How Did I Do It?

I used to have a full-time job as a pharmacist. So did my partner.

Unlike other mothers, I did not leave my job ‘because I wanted to spend time with the kids’.

I was burnt out, tired, and demoralized after a decade of good performance as a retail pharmacist, but not getting the acknowledgement I wanted.

I left my job in search of greener pastures online.

I started web designing and funnel designing.

It was a disaster.

I didn’t know what I was doing half the time.

My savings ran out, and my family started to fall on hard times.

We were tightening our belts, stopping tuition classes, and cutting out all the little things that we felt we could do without.

Desperation set in, and I started searching for jobs online – without any skills except dispensing and counseling as a pharmacist.

The entire family now depended on my partner and his salary, and many nights I cried myself to sleep thinking that I was a lost cause.

I became, essentially, the idea of the stay-at-home parent I’d always imagined one was – broke, waking up in the morning to prepare breakfast for the kids and to clean house, do laundry, create a daily to-do list of chores, and look like a fishwife. I’m not kidding.

I think I stayed that way for months before one day I snapped myself out of the cloud of self-pity I was drowning in, and told myself that even a stay at home mom needed financial independence and stay relevant in the working world.

I Started To Take Charge Of My Life. Here’s How.

As my business started growing, I started investing in social media management.

I knew a bit of design. I thought I would start there.

In January 2022, I borrowed some money, invested in a proper coaching program, and started learning in earnest.

It became more than just my daily schedule. I was consumed by the need to ‘make it’, to succeed.

I gave myself no room for doubts, tears, or unnecessary thoughts. I was fighting for survival and a way to become a modern SAHM – one that earned a lot of money and was financially independent.

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I was no longer the quintessential stay at home mom.

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I gave up free time, nap time, and worked on learning designing full time on the computer.

I put in endless hours of hard work, giving up sleep, food, and time with the kids.

Yep, even as a stay at home mom, I wasn’t there for the kids. 

I was physically there, but I wasn’t mentally or emotionally truly available. 

I’m not saying this is the right thing to do. It wasn’t. But it was what happened.

I hardly spent quality time with the family. I’m fortunate they stuck around, really.

They would go out for walks. I would stay home. They would sometimes eat out. I would stay home. They would watch their favorite shows on TV together. I would stay cooped up in the study.

I told myself that this was temporary—that once I ‘made it’, I would be able to return to a more flexible schedule and be more involved in the family’s needs. 

Having given myself the permission, I went all in and landed my first online job as a funnel builder and designer with an online agency.

The hours were flexible, and the pay decent – USD2,500 monthly.

It was a start.

I was fired up, and I went harder and deeper.

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Hitting $10,000 Months By January 2023

Making money and growing a business as a stay at home mom

I continued learning, working hard, and getting more and more clients and referrals. It got the the point where I started getting fully booked out every month.

There were difficult days and challenges, but with the grace of God, I was able to pick myself up and keep going.

I was making more than my partner monthly at this point.

I felt vindicated, satisfied, and my self-confidence returned.

My family was incredibly supportive. They were seeing the results, and they wanted me to succeed as much as I did.

My kids would tiptoe around me every time I hopped on a Zoom call with a client.

They would quietly buy food for me as I worked throughout the day and night, and leave it aside for when I would remember to eat. 

These were young kids, yet they were mature beyond their years.

They helped with daily chores and took on the most important jobs – taking care of themselves and sharing family responsibilities with their parents.

I wouldn’t be where I am now today if not for these little people that behave like big kids. I am incredibly grateful.

My eldest son would manage his siblings’ screen time and determine the best ways to juggle studying, doing homework, and do daily tasks (making their own beds, bringing out the trash, sleeping on time).

At the end of the day, mommy would be at the computer, and the kids would put themselves to bed.

Hitting $30,000 Months By March 2024

Pivoting from a pharmacist to a stay at home mom that works from home.

There comes a time where you need to outsource because too many projects are coming in.

I found outsourcing incredibly liberating.

It gave me the ability to take the first step away from my business (now a thriving funnel building agency), and for the first time in years, I was able to be part of the family. I started doing leisure activities with them – reading to them before bed, helping them with their homework, and creating a daily schedule for them to alternate between having fun and studying.

I had a team I could depend upon to get projects done.

The initial phase of me stepping away from the computer had me feeling guilty and irresponsible. I still feel this way (and I write this as of September 2024).

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I retired my husband two months ago, in July 2024.

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My morning routine consists of a light breakfast and a gym session with him. His daily routine consists of him ferrying the kids to school and back, and with him around, they were now able to enjoy extra curricular activities after school.

After years of being alone in the house throughout the day (when he worked and the kids were in school), I now had someone to talk to during the day. Someone to share my thoughts, frustrations, and wins with.

I started bringing them on little breaks and trips here and there easily, because my partner was no longer bound to applying for annual leaves. 

I consciously made it a point to take several hours off a day to sit down and catch my favourite movie, or go for a walk. 

I still work till late night. I’m not at the point where I can clock off at 5PM and say yay, my day is over.

Yet, now I don’t do this alone. I don’t wake up alone and go through the day alone on my own. 

I don’t go to bed late at night on my own.

My partner stays up with me, and he is there during the day to keep me company.

He helps me with my social media. He manages my videos and is my physical VA.

Despite our busy schedules, we make time to talk, go grocery shopping together, have lunch together, and grab a cup of coffee together.

Amazingly, it helps me to work better.

I feel happier and more contented. I feel less lonely. There is adult interaction every day now.

And work becomes fun. Daily life becomes less mundane.

He is happy to support me in my role of CEO. I am happy to possess the financial power and ability to provide them with an amazing life.

What A Stay At Home Mom Job Title Means To Me Now

My 3 boys and I, as a stay at home mom making $30,000 monthly.

A stay at home mom means exactly that – stay at home.

It doesn’t need to mean that you’re not working. You can be a working mom, like myself.

You can be handling your first baby, your home life, and a real job – all from home.

You can be amazing and earn a lot of money.

You can travel and enjoy the laptop lifestyle with your family.

And if you earn USD – one of the stronger currencies in the world, you are free to travel and work from anywhere.

You can juggle your kids’ homework and cook. You can manage an online team and take on multiple projects from home. 

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Data shows stay-at-home mothers almost doubled from 15 percent

in 2022 to 25 percent in 2023 in the United States.

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You can fall sick and know that your kids still have you around, and that your business will not be affected.

You no longer need to ask for permission to take sick leave.

You can wear clean clothes, look good, have self-confidence, and find different ways to spend the day – work, shop, go for an outing with the family, or work out.

I was very lucky, because I had time to experience the most important things in life – my family’s support and love – when I was struggling.

We all start from the bottom. There is no shame in that. 

Nothing comes easy, and everything requires work, dedication, and commitment.

There is no short answer or a quick way to success.

If you need to learn a skill to do something well, then learn it. Once you learn something, you cannot unlearn it – and no one can take it from you.

The point is, anyone can do this. 

Stay focused, and you’ll get there.

A mom’s life staying at home doesn’t mean you can’t make a difference in the world. 

You can.

I’m helping multiple businesses make money with funnels. 

I’ve coached hundreds of students into becoming successful funnel builders.

I plan to keep doing it.

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Steps You Can Take To Do The Same.

  1. Determine what you’re open to learning. It can be something you’ve never tried before – as long as you’re open to learning it. Web design. Copywriting. Social media management. Running Facebook ads. It can be anything.
  2. Invest in a coaching program and learn the basics really well. To create a sustainable freelancing business, your foundations need to be extremely strong.
  3. Do not spend too much time on things that take up too much of your time. Spend enough to know what you need done, and get someone else to do it. If you cannot afford to have someone else do it, put it aside and focus on making money first.
  4. Update your family members and children about what you’re doing, so your family life is not disrupted as they learn to support you along your journey.
  5. Spend 30 minutes of alone time or personal time daily to destress by reading a book, catching your favorite K-drama, or scrolling social media. Whatever rocks your boat.
  6. Whenever you feel tired and frustrated with work, go out for a run, a walk, bake a cake or cook a meal as a creative outlet.
  7. Stay focused and determined. Remember your end goal, and work towards it. Do not give up. Good things await!

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